|
|
|
I will
lie down in peace, and sleep comes at once
for you alone, Lord, make me dwell in safety. |
 |
Psalm
4 : 9 |
Catholic Psychotherapy |
Spiritual Counsels |
Books |
About CSF
Understanding
Causality |
The Unconscious Aspect of
Emotional Trials |
Encountering Emotional Trials
with Faith |
Medication vs.
Self-Scrutiny |
Self-help
Recommendations
E
KNOW from
scientific research that the brain and the mind have a mutual influence on
each other.
Medical research has taught us
that a hormonal imbalance, for example, can result in emotional symptoms,
and that correction of the hormonal imbalance through medication or surgery
can restore emotional stability.
Moreover, psychological research
has taught us that pure psychological activity, such as meditation and hypnosis,
can actually alter brain chemistry. Guided imagery and virtual reality, for
example, can effectively deaden pain reception in the brain.
All of this tells us that when
looking to determine the cause of something, we really need to consider
different kinds of causes.
Understanding
Causality
Because the brain and the mind
have a mutual influence on each other, it is important to understand that
even though mental disorders may have a material cause in brain
neurochemistry they can also have a final cause in psychological
activity.
|
Think, for a
moment about the building in which you may now be sitting. We can ask,
What is the cause of this building? just as you might ask about
the cause of depression or anxiety. Well, in his philosophy, Aristotle
(Physics, ii, 3) described several different types of causes that
are relevant even today.
|
The
material cause refers to that out
of which a thing comes to be and persists. In this sense, for example,
the steel and concrete and glassthe materialsare the cause of
a building. |
|
The
formal cause refers to the formor
plan, or patternby which the essence of something is stated. In this
sense, the design and blueprints are the cause of a building. |
|
The
efficient cause refers to the primary
source of the change or coming to rest. In this sense, the construction
company is the cause of a building. |
|
The
final cause refers to that for
the sake of which a thing is done. In this sense, the owners
desire is the cause of a building. |
|
|
Now, as Aristotle himself said,
it follows that there are several causes of the same thing. In
psychological practice this means that symptoms of depression, for example,
which might be caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain (material
cause) can, at the same time, be caused by repressed anger (final
cause).
The Unconscious
Aspect of Emotional Trials
Psychologically, locating and
treating the unconscious final cause of the symptoms can be the most
critical aspect of the treatment because it can have a curative effect on
the other causes as well. Treating only the material cause, howeveras
if it were the rational and only causewill leave the final cause
untreated and free to continue exerting its harmful influence. In regard
to depression and anxiety, the psychological treatment usually centers around
unconscious feelings of
anger and guilt and
victimization.
|
From a Christian
perspective, the root of anxiety is a lack of
trust in Gods providence, such that, when facing the unknown,
you worry endlessly about how to figure it out on your own. The
root of depression is a lack of trust in Gods
justice, such that when encountering any hurt
or insult you fall into a desire to take matters into your own hands
to get revenge, but, feeling helpless to overpower others, you turn your
anger onto yourself as unconscious self-blame. |
|
This means, therefore, that some
persons cling with unconscious determination to a childlike desire to make
their parents admit their mistakes. These persons use their own disability
as evidence of their parents failuresevidence to be thrown back
into their parents facesand, in so doing, they effectively reject
divine love for the savor of
revenge.
What? you ask.
Revenge? Thats ridiculous. I dont want revenge. Im
past that.
Well, no one is past
the capacity for self-deception, and only when
you can be honest about your entanglement in the
unconscious can you extricate yourself from it. So,
if you truly were past revenge, you would do anything it takespay
any price and overcome any fearto be
healed, and then you would turn to your parents
and, as a gift of true love, offer to them your healing,
as evidence that, despite all their mistakes, they really didnt cripple
you after all. But by continuing in your self-sabotaging behavior you show
that you would prefer to send yourself to hell
just to prove to someone how much he has hurt you. Note carefully that the real
psychological problem here is your desire to sabotage
yourself, not any particular disorder that may afflict you. Therefore, its
simply impossible to open yourself to Gods healing grace until you let go of
the secret hope that your own self-destruction will bring
you the sweet satisfaction of . . . well, revenge.
|
All that worry
and all that self-blame is rust on our souls that prevents us from getting
close to God. Its a self-limiting sort of dynamic that keeps us stuck
in our own unconscious despair. For no matter how many times you say,
Jesus, I trust in You! if you say the words only intellectually,
without deep love in your heart, those words will do no more to heal your
fear than a coat of paint can fix crumbling
rust. |
|
Encountering
Emotional Trials with Faith
So consider for a moment all
the emotional wounds that have afflicted you and compare it all to what happened
to Saint Paul:
|
I am still more,
with far greater labors, far more imprisonments, far worse beatings, and
numerous brushes with death. Five times at the hands of the Jews I received
forty lashes minus one. Three times I was beaten with rods, once I was stoned,
three times I was shipwrecked, I passed a night and a day on the deep; on
frequent journeys, in dangers from rivers, dangers from robbers, dangers
from my own race, dangers from Gentiles, dangers in the city, dangers in
the wilderness, dangers at sea, dangers among false brothers; in toil and
hardship, through many sleepless nights, through hunger and thirst, through
frequent fastings, through cold and exposure. And apart from these things,
there is the daily pressure upon me of my anxiety for all the churches. Who
is weak, and I am not weak? Who is led to sin, and I am not indignant?
|
|
|
2 Corinthians 11:23-29 |
|
No matter what happened to him,
Paul did not get depressed; he did not get PTSD; he did not stop working.
Why? Well, when he said, I have been crucified with Christ; yet I live,
no longer I, but Christ lives in me (Galatians 2:19b-20a), he wasnt
just speaking flowery poetryhe meant it, literally. He really was
dead to psychological conflicts
about pride and
revenge.
Of course, just like Saint Paul,
all those who live devout Christian lives will experience periods of uncertainty
and anguishall aspects of personal
suffering. Just look at the lives of the saints.
But, if everything is accepted with complete faith, none of it has to become
a psychiatric disorder.
|
Consider it all
joy when you encounter various trials, for you know that the testing of your
faith produces perseverance. |
|
|
James 1:2-3 |
|
And thats true when you
have guidance in faith through the
Tradition of the Church and the spiritual nurturance
of the sacraments and devout prayer. But when you encounter
trials without the rock-solid stability of the
Church to guide you and are forced to use your own wits to survive (as in
dysfunctional families), then adversity commonly
leads to chaos and confusion.
Medication vs.
Self-scrutiny
Psychiatric
medications may be necessary in some extreme
casessuch as
schizophrenia, bipolar
disorder, and severe episodes of
major depression.
Medications may also be useful
in some cases to provide temporary relief from anxiety or depressed mood
to facilitate
psychotherapy.
Psychiatric medications, however,
are not curative, and, for less extreme symptoms, medications should be used
only in conjunction with psychotherapy or rigorous spiritual direction. For
the most part, the use of psychiatric medication primarily supports the secular
scientific error that you can feel better without having to alter
your lifestyle to assume moral responsibility for
your life. Real spiritual purification, however, demands a total change of
lifestyle, turning from worldly attachments
to embrace a moral and virtuous life through complete
dying to self in Christ.
So what can you do? Although
severe symptoms may require emergency medical treatment, psychotherapyor
spiritual direction with someone who is also a qualified
psychotherapistcan help to uncover psychological
conflicts that block complete trust in God.
For example,
anxiety and
nightmares following a
trauma can often be the result of repressed
anger, and if the anger is resolved in a spiritual
context, rather than suppressed with medication, the psychiatric
disorder of
PTSD will resolve right along with the anger. Similarly,
depression is often the result of anger turned inwards;
it can derive from a desperate need for
social approval and a
self-condemnation for not receiving that approval.
But if you seek only the approval of Christ, not the world, you have no reason
for anger and no reason to condemn
yourself.
Self-help
Recommendations
Keeping in mind all that I said
above about depression and anxiety in general, consider the following specific
points:
| |
If you have
excessive worry (called anxiety
in clinical terms), then say what the Church says every night at
Night PrayerInto your hands, Lord, I commend
my spiritas it is said in Psalm 31, just as Christ himself said
as he died on the Cross (Luke 23:46).
Remember, worry can
make nothing happen except disaster itself.
You might also practice
a physiological relaxation technique such as
Autogenics (from A Guide to Psychology and its
Practice). Once you learn how to relax and trust in your body on the
physical level, you can then turn to trust in God to free you from anxiety
on the spiritual level. A relaxation recording
(true to the Catholic faith) from this website can help you experience
such trust.
|
| |
If you have
difficulty concentrating or are troubled
by obsessive
thoughts [1],
then drive away these thoughts with one constant, holy thought. Recite the
Jesus Prayer constantly.
The prayer is simple: Lord
Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy upon me.
The technique, too, is simple:
recite the prayer
constantly.[2]
Still, as simple as it is, its
hard work. No sooner will you start to pray than your mind will wander and
you will be off in your own thoughts. But once you realize that your mind
has wandered from the prayer, stop thinking and return to the prayer. Dont
try to analyze what happened. Just immediately stop thinking and return to
the prayer.
You have to hold in your heart
the will to do this. But if you desire it more than anything elsemore
even than the desire to stay stuck in your fear and
anxietyyou can do it. If you love God, and if you love your soul, you
can do it.
|
| |
If you have
trouble sleeping (called insomnia
in clinical terms), dont worry about not being able to sleep; worrying
about not sleeping only deepens the insomnia. Therefore, just use the time
to study and pray until you feel sleepy.
Study
the basics of the true Faith
by beginning with a cover-to-cover reading of the Catechism of the Catholic
Church, and continue by reading the Bible, the
writings of the saints, and the other books I
recommend.
Pray for the salvation
of souls. Make a list of friends, relatives, and categories of individuals
(all those souls who have ever hurt or betrayed you; all those souls who
defile the Holy Name; all heretics; all pagans; all the poor souls in danger
of hell who have no one to pray for them; etc.) and pray for their repentance
and conversion, saying the Chaplet of The Divine
Mercy for each person or group on your list.
|
| |
If you feel
fatigued, then think of Christ carrying
the cross and realize that his obedience to his mission
gave him the strength to continue.
|
| |
If you have a
loss of appetite or if you
overeat, then remind yourself that you
should hunger for nothing but the Body and Blood of Christ, and that, because
your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, you
must take good care of it, neither eating too little nor
overeating.
|
| |
If you have
feelings of extreme worthlessness or
guilt, then remind yourself that apart from Christ
you are worthless and deserve nothing but
condemnation, yet in Christ you are offered not only forgiveness but also
a gift of glory more valuable than can possibly be imagined.
When you live in
a state of sin, your own sins condemn you. But when
you live in a state of grace, through
chastity and
obedience, Christ will Himself protect you, and your
confidence, which will come from Him, can never be undermined, because Christ
can never be undermined: The gates of the netherworld shall not prevail
(Matthew 16:18).
|
| |
If you have a
lack of interest in usually enjoyable
things, then rejoice, for your Christian mission in life is not
to enjoy yourself but to proclaim the Gospel at all times by making constant
sacrifices for the salvation of other
souls.
|
| |
If you have a
depressed mood, then think of Christ
on the cross, hated and despised, and reflect on the fact that all who would
be Christians must suffer rejection by the world and die on the cross with
Christ, in order to be resurrected with him to everlasting life.
In this regard, someone
wrote to me, I think you should tell your patients to buy a crucifix,
have it blessed, and kiss the wounds on it. Im not saying a crucifix
only, but maybe even a picture of the face of Christ. They could kiss the
wounds on His face. I think it would really help them. . . . it
helps me enormously. It makes me feel like I would like to kiss everyone
because Christ has transplanted some of Himself in me.
|
|
If you have thoughts of death, remember
that only by dying to this world can we be
born to everlasting life, and that until God alone decides that our time
here is finished we must devote all our energy to hard work in his
service. So be honest with yourself here and recognize
that suicide is just a way of saying to God,
My willnot Thy willbe done.
|
Jesus, I trust
in You!

Notes
1. On another page of this website
I explain about understanding your fantasies rather than trying to ignore
them. This work of understanding is valuable, but even when you have understood
your fantasies they will not just grow wings and fly away. Distractions will
keep intruding into your mind as long as you live. The advice on the present
webpage is therefore intended to help you ward off the distractions you have
already understood.
2. You dont have to be concerned about getting your
work done. When you need to think logically, or when you need to pray other
prayers, the Jesus Prayer will not interfere. It will cease when you need
it to cease; just remember to start it again when you become aware that it
has stopped.
 |
 |
Anger
and
Forgiveness
How to turn the emotional wounds
of daily life into psychological growth. |
 |
Psychology
from the
Heart
Collected texts about
the spiritual depth
of clinical psychology |
 |
 |
More information |
|
More information |
|