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I am a Presbyterian minister and found your comments and statements very illuminating in my study of the book of Jonah. When I preach through a book, I always try to ask “why” questions, to get beyond the surface issues to the truth that sometimes hides on a deeper level. Jonah is certainly a book about following God’s direction and leading, but I wanted to know why Jonah made so many suicidal references in this short book.
 
I found in your comments about Depression and Suicide a helpful description of Jonah. From a pastoral perspective, my observation is that Jonah definitely had suicidal attitudes throughout the book. But the encouraging thing is that even with Jonah’s sometimes skewed perspective, God used him to communicate a very helpful message to the Ninevites. They heard Jonah’s warnings and desired to make moral sense of their lives and to respond to God’s mercy. Having at least two people in my congregation who have attempted suicide, it will be an encouraging message (to them and others in the congregation) that God often makes our lives a blessing to others, even when we can’t see past our own struggles.

 
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Actually, the full theological value of the story of Jonah goes deeper even than your interpretation. Look at the part about the gourd plant near the end of the story. Jonah was “happy” when it was growing; he became “angry” when it died. This is a perfect example of the “love-hate flip-flop” that I describe on the Sexuality—and Love page of A Guide to Psychology and its Practice. When the infant’s needs are met, it “loves” the mother; when its needs are frustrated, as when the mother gives attention to something—or someone—else, the infant “hates” the mother. And, as I say on the Depression and Suicide page of A Guide to Psychology and its Practice, this hate is so unconsciously repugnant that the infant can turn it all against itself in depression and suicide.

So why was Jonah angry with God? Well, let’s go back to the beginning of the story. Jonah was jealous that God would want to show mercy to Nineveh. He was jealous that God would turn His attention away from Israel and show concern for another people. And so Jonah ran from God, in anger—and with feelings of suicide. The suicidal feelings, if put into words, would have said, like a jealous child, “I’m angry that I am not the center of your attention. If you can care about Nineveh, then I am worthless and deserve to die.”

Hence God, in His mercy, gave Jonah a bitter taste of death—and then He rescued him. Momentarily encouraged by this, Jonah went to Nineveh as he was commanded and called the city to repentance as he was commanded. Astonishingly, everyone in Nineveh actually repented. They repented even before Jonah got a third of the way through the city. Jonah was shocked. And he fell back into jealousy.

God, then, had to use the gourd plant to show Jonah what the mission was all about. It was about love. “As you loved that plant, so I love the world,” God told him. “And I love Nineveh, and I love even the cattle of Nineveh.” And we can understand here God’s unspoken implication to Jonah: “And I love you.”

Thus the true nature of mercy was revealed: To deny mercy to others is to deny it to yourself.

But this isn’t all.

Mercy—and love—are not just a matter of all-inclusive acceptance. It’s not just a psychological matter of saying, “I’m OK, you’re OK.” Yes, God loves us, but our sins separate us from Him. True love, therefore, calls us away from sin and into repentance. True love doesn’t just say, “Come, and join us.” It also calls people to repent their sins. God used Jonah to preach to Nineveh, and then, using the gourd plant as a metaphor, He preached to Jonah himself. Real love calls people to you so you can preach to them to change their behavior.

This is a very heavy obligation for anyone who claims to live the Gospel today. It really means that you have to stand up to everything in the entire society—to all of “Nineveh,” even the cattle—and preach the truth about sin. Divorce is legal, but it’s still sin. Abortion is legal, but it’s still sin. Contraception is legal, but it’s still sin. Sodomy is now legal, but it’s still sin. Even Playboy magazine is legal, but it’s still sin. Our whole culture is rooted in sin.

And you, being an instrument of God like the worm in the gourd plant, have to show people that the things they “love” are, first of all, just illusions that hide their unconscious resentment and anger at God. In addition, all these illusions are just a way to deny God’s mercy to others. Because if you fail to tell others that they are living in sin they can’t repent, can they? And if you fail in this, they will be destroyed—and you, through your obstinate disobedience, will die a slow spiritual suicide and will be destroyed as well.

 


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