Psychological Healing
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Thank you for this website. You’ve saved my life, I think. . . . But none of the priests in my Church preaches these things. None of the parishioners [that I know] lives this way, and none of my family and friends lives this way. What am I supposed to do now?

Outline of the Answer
• The Truth
• Demons in Sheep’s Clothing
• The Few—and the Rest
• A Few Good Friends
• A Constant Vow

 
Welcome to the true Catholic Church. This is the pain of it all. Once you have had your eyes opened to the truth, then you see that hardly anyone else understands—or even desires to understand—the truth.

 
Demons in Sheep’s Clothing

The Church is infested with demons in sheep’s clothing. It began with Judas Iscariot himself, and it will continue to the end. It’s a bit like that science-fiction movie from the 1950s, The Invasion of the Body Snatchers, such that we always have to wonder about others.

That seemingly nice usher back there—is he a genuine example of community service, or has he been snatched by liberal humanism? That seemingly devout woman praying the Rosary over there—is she a genuine example of piety, or has she been snatched by a desire to feel socially important? The priest at the altar—is he a genuine model of surrender and courage, or has he been snatched by a subversive plan to undermine Church tradition? The bishop himself—does he genuinely want to feed the sheep, or has he been snatched by an administrative pragmatism that would feed the sheep to the wolves in order to raise money?

 
The Few—and the Rest

Nevertheless, even though you may not know of them, there are a few who seek Christ at all costs. They are quiet and humble, and they bear their suffering silently, so you may not notice them or think much of them when you see them.

Aside from those few, the rest don’t want to do anything it takes to live holy lives; instead, they want to live in comfort. They enjoy the satisfaction of thinking they lead holy lives, and yet they balk at accepting the hardships a holy life entails.

  

In the old days, martyrs allowed themselves to be cut to pieces and burned without so much as a whimper. Today, most Catholics faint at the thought of a pinprick and lack the courage to defend anything other than, well, their own complacency.

  

 
A Few Good Friends

So, when bishops and priests offer a watered-down version of the faith, and when the people around you act with ignorance and irreverence before the divine mysteries, resolve that you will do anything it takes to be a good friend to Christ. He needs a few good friends right now.

As for the others, pray for them anyway, and let your life be a humble example, for them and for all. That’s what you’re supposed to do. Now, and always.

 
A Constant Vow

Living the true faith is a lonely place to be, and you won’t be able to survive unless you cling to prayer. So keep in your heart the constant underlying prayer, “O God, protect me from all the darkness and evil in the world around me!”

Moreover, cling to a constant vow—your spiritual mission, as it were—that you will remain pure no matter what happens in the world around you.

In every difficult situation, be aware of your feelings of hurt and resentment and irritation; acknowledge the fantasies that come to you about how you would like to retaliate with curses or wit; tell yourself, “No, I can’t do these things. I have to remain true to my mission.”

Finally, pray, “Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me. Give me courage to tolerate the perversion in the world around me. Deliver me, O Lord; deliver me, and protect me in all these trials. Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me. Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me. . . .”

 


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