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Every time I say the Our Father I wonder what it means, “Lead us not into temptation.” Would God be that mean to us to tempt us? I’ve never heard an explanation that isn’t just a fancy cover up of what seems to be the obvious yet shouldn’t be.

 
Many theologians through the ages have offered their explanations of the Our Father, and these explanation all have some merit. But since this is a website about Catholic psychology, I will offer a psychological explanation—which, in its own way, will lead us to the theological meaning.

So consider now what would happen if I told you, “Don’t think of pink elephants in the next few minutes.” Well, if you are as imaginative as most persons, as soon as you hear the words “pink elephants” you will be visualizing, in your imagination, a pink elephant.

This, then, points to a curious psychological principle about a negative admonition: When told not to do something, we immediately think of doing it.

In the case of the Our Father, when we say, “Lead us not into temptation,” we can’t avoid thinking of temptation. And that right there is the theological point.

To begin to understand this, let’s take a more simple example. Think of the many times that Christ told the Apostles, “Do not be afraid.” Notice that He didn’t just say, “Be at peace.” By saying, “Do not be afraid,” He deliberately puts the thought of fear into the Apostle’s minds. Why? Well, the reason is psychological: to remind the Apostles that they are afraid, and to emphasize, therefore, that all they have in their lives is fear—that is, without Christ all they have is fear. But with Christ, He who is speaking, there is no fear. Thus, by telling them what not to do, Christ reminds the Apostles of their wretched reality while at the same time offering freedom from it all.

And this, then, is the same dynamic at work in the Our Father. When we say, “Lead us not into temptation,” we can’t help but be reminded that we are surrounded by temptation. It’s everywhere. The world is full of temptation. Temptation is in the air like a fog dripping from dark clouds of deception.

So there’s our reality.

And where is our freedom from it all?

Well, by realizing the horror of being surrounded by temptation, we can then be receptive to what God is calling us to do: renounce the world and its impious darkness and follow Christ into the light. In other words, rather than muttering in our hearts, “But I will die if I have to give up the satisfactions of the world!” we find ourselves in the place of begging God to lead us away from the world.

Therefore, when we pray the words our Savior gave us—“Lead us not into temptation”—we find ourselves essentially begging God the Father for a detachment from the world that, left to ourselves, we would never think of wanting.

But why then, we can ask in conclusion, do we have so many Christians who, despite their praying the Our Father, have swallowed temptation hook, line, and sinker? The answer is simple. When reciting the Our Father, most persons don’t look with deep contemplation into the darkness of their hearts; instead, they say their prayers as just rote words, missing the point of prayer itself. And what did Christ say about this sort of empty piety? “I tell you, unless your righteousness surpasses that of the scribes and Pharisees, you will not enter into the Kingdom of Heaven” (Matthew 5:20). Think about that now. This is a straight-forward positive admonition, not a negative admonition. So what does Christ want you to do?

 


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