Psychological Healing
in the Roman Catholic Mystic Tradition

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I feel sorry for your clients unless their [sic] all cloistered monks and nuns, they only would be able to meet your ridged [sic] demands and I doubt they would agree with you. I will pray for your clients. No true saint charged for their [sic] spiritual advise [sic].

 
The more you try to insult me, the more you reveal the depths of the very anger that blocks you from living a devout Christian life, and the more you prove the whole point of this website.

But since anger usually derives from fear, you do offer a clue. For you to say that only cloistered monks and nuns could meet “my” demands shows just how much you must be afraid. That is, by convicing yourself that something is impossible, you free yourself from any effort to achieve it. And that’s precisely where many would-be Christians go wrong. Christ Himself warned us that many are called and only a few are chosen. In the story of The Rich Young Man (Matthew 19:16-30) He makes it clear what He demands of us: everything. This isn’t just a “rigid demand” that only monks and nuns can meet; it’s a demand for all of us.

One day, on account of some fault which I had committed, my Divine Master gave me the following lesson. “Learn,” He said, “that I am a Holy Master and One that teaches holiness; I am pure and cannot endure the slightest stain. Therefore, thou must act with simplicity of heart and with an upright and pure intention in my presence. Know that I cannot endure the least want of straightforwardness, and I shall make thee understand that, if the excess of My love has led Me to constitute Myself thy Master, in order to teach and fashion thee after My manner and according to My designs, nevertheless I cannot bear tepid and cowardly souls, and, if I am gentle in bearing with thy weakness, I shall not be less severe and exact in correcting and punishing thy infidelities.”

—Saint Margaret Mary,
Autobiography, 51.

And in The Parable of the Talents (Matthew 25:14-30) Christ tells us what will happen to those who out of fear refuse to serve Him productively: not only are God’s gifts taken from them, but they lose everything else as well.

Now, speaking about gifts from God, everything on this website is free of charge, and I say plainly that you don’t really need to pay me to learn how to fulfill the demands of Christ, if only you are willing to pray properly. And for those who do need to pay me, we have the words of Saint Paul himself: “A worker deserves his pay” (1 Timothy 5:18).

Thank you for your prayers for my clients. Maybe someday you will even learn how to pray for those whom you dislike—as Christ “rigidly” demanded of us.

 


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